A new start after 60: I went on 75 first dates – and wrote a book of Kama Sutra-inspired poetry

2026-03-23 - 07:19

Zack Rogow thought he was ready for love after the end of a long relationship – but not everyone agreed. How did he get over the rejections? When Zack Rogow’s relationship ended, he joined an online dating site. Aged 66, Rogow prepared for his first date with a mixture of grief at the loss of a love he’d thought would last a lifetime, and euphoria. “I was gaga – ‘Oh, I’m single again. I can meet people!’” In the event, one match led to another and he notched up 75 first dates over 18 months. Some dates were outdoorsy walks. Others took place in wine bars, in cafes or at the movies. He kept notes, jotting down each woman’s career and family situation so he wouldn’t put his foot in it on a second date. It must have started to feel like a job. Continue reading...